Or are our beliefs on the human level too much of a volatile clash, for the strong connection at the energetic level to be able to push through.
I feel I have entered with open eyes and heart, but -------is so strongly enmeshed in the past and old beliefs!
There is no right or wrong answer.
One is never in the wrong relationship with another, only with their self!
If the relationship has challenging aspects it is reflecting back unto you, your own inner struggles.
That is the gift of growth it brings to you both.
So in fact this relationship is a most beauteous thing.
A relationship is never static for it is in fact a living entity.
The intermingled energy of the relationship is flavored by those who share the relationship; you can either pollute or perfume the energy; but while it has energy it is alive with potential.
When there is no energy there is NO relationship!
The relating is not to be judged, it is as it is.
Even in a relationship that is violent and hurtful one is gifted to delve to the depths of their own vulnerability to heal, and simultaneously empowered to assert and love thy self!
The greatest diminishing factor in relationship is that it can take you away from oneness.
One may have so many expectations of the other, which then is not of love, but a need to and for control.
It comes from the fear that this relationship cannot supply all one needs, and in fact it cannot, and is not intended to do so.
In ONENESS one is in relationship with all there is no separation.
The other cannot complete you or make you a harmonious whole.
When one is in true harmony with their being, then they can be in Harmony with all. You have certainly stated the trigger to your disharmony BELIEFS!
These differing BELIEFS are they truth and if they are the truth for you; must they be the truth to the other?
Beliefs are not instrumental to love or loving, they are of fear and control.
Yes it is easy to be so philosophical but when in physical form beliefs gyrate to the energy field and when held most firmly to they become missiles of attack.
Now you must ask yourself………………….
· If my beliefs are the truth for me~ is that not enough?
· Who am I trying to convince?
· Why do I expect the other to share the same belief?
· If I cannot accept that they believe differently to me?
· Why is it that I want to change them?
· If I want to change them, how can I then say I love who they are?
· Is it only the illusion of relationship that I am willing to love?
See in Fact when you cannot accept the other; it too is a part of you who you are in fact rejecting.
What you may be experiencing at this time with your partner is the shedding of the past. As one soul such as yourself endeavors’ to grow and is awakening you shed your past.
As you shed your past as you move more fully into clarity, the other will hold tightly to their story.
This is not necessarily to be deemed bad; disruptive perhaps, but do not judge it as bad! This rigid clinging to the past is often the first steps to the clearing.
It may in fact be you who is reacting to his past?
What is difficult to recognize at times is that two souls who are magnetically drawn to each other, are both vibrating at the same level of consciousness.
It may not appear as that to you because you want to think you are so different.
But you have come together like pieces of a jig saw puzzle, with both of you bringing different views different skills to the table of your relationship.
As you said there is a volatile clash; now this could not occur if you were in inner harmony!
Clash takes two and is totally reactive; it is not harmonious response.
It feels that you both have equal input into this clash.
If you do have love for each other, if the beauty and the wonder is seeded in the relationship, then spend time honouring that in the other and within the relationship.
“Yes it comes down to gratitude and Grace.”
Practice gratitude for the other, respect and appreciation for the other.
See the beautiful qualities in the other as being also within you.
Pay the other compliments, be attentive, and listen respectfully to their point of view without needing to enforce your perspective further.
I f you give this gracefully from the heart you may just be surprised and receive it back.
When one does not have the same vibration of consciousness as you, does not make them out of synch with you.
See in what areas of their being, physical, family, career, and life skills that their vibration may be higher than yours and learn thus from them.
As you embrace what it is you have come together to enhance, not enforce in the other!
The relationship will either blossom or come to an end but it will have served its justful and divine purpose.
BE THE LOVE, BELOVED 11:2:2011